can you just wait for the right time? why are you so eager?

its about time YOU use YOUR brain that ALLAH has given. this post is all about just wanting YOU to think.

in the name of Allah, i post this. in the name of Allah, i hope that wtv im gonna type here, is according to Sunnah & al-Quran. whichever is not, push it all aside.

Bismillah.

prolly by now, everyone knows that BGR is a normal thing among teenagers. yeah, its a normal thing *shrugs it off* -____-' i knooooooow, been there, done thattttttt. but then, if one day, you were to realise whatever youre doing right now, is freaking wrong, oh God, bet you'll regret for the.rest.of.your.life -_-'

okay so now you ask me whats wrong with BGR. i'll explain.

first of all, what do get from hvng BGR?
ARE YOU LACKING OF LOVE? care? concern? attention? tell me about it.
or do you just want someone to attend to your materialistic desires?

do you really need someone that has no stable income, and has no intention in making you his/her wife/husband's love/care/concern/attention? ask yourself, ARE YOU NOT ALRIGHT ON YOUR OWN? what are family & friends for? and isnt ALLAH always here for ALL OF US? we dont hv to worry much :)

secondly, DO YOU THINK its fine holding/touching someone that isnt your mhrm?! SERIOUSLY? what more about kissing and hving free sex/pre-marital sex! THINK! PONDER!

do you want a 2nd hand stuff or an original one that someone has yet to use it? do you want your stuffs dirty or clean?

And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: No man is ever alone with a (non-mahram) women but the Shaytaan is the third one present.? (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2165; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi, 1758)

thirdly, DO YOU THINK its A-OKAY posting pictures with your bf/gf side by side?!!! and letting the wholllllllllleeeeeeeeeeee world look at the pic of both of you? IS THERE NOTHING WRONG IN IT?! ahh look at it again, TELL ME ABOUT IT.

forthly, dont you find it IRONIC & CONTRADICTING when you ask ALLAH to help you in your HARAAM R/SHIP? huh???? O_O

do think, please.

marriage, building a family, taking up its responsibilities, its a sunnah! :)
its an IBADAH! a step for you to be closer to Allah! (in sya Allah)
may we find the right person, at the right time. Allah knows best.
He knows whats best for all of us. Allahu Allahu Allah~

"When the one we love the most, fear the most, fear losing the most, want to please the most, desire meeting the most, give everything up for the most, listen to the most, rely on the most, confide in the most, seek help from the most, find comfort in the most is Allah Most High, every problem or nuisance will start becoming miniscule (:" - reminder from a sis

“And your Lord said: “Invoke Me [i.e. believe in My Oneness (Islamic Monotheism) and ask Me for anything] I will respond to your (invocation)” [40:60]

“…But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.” (2:216)

JUST BE PATIENT. the time will come, sooner or later. we dont hv to rush. if that someone is really meant for us, then it'll be. in sya Allah. i shall leave this matter in God's hands. may you & I be guided, and always be under His guidance. Ameen, in sya Allah! :')

WHY AM I TYPING ALL THESE WHEN JUST A VERSE FROM AL-QURAN SAYS IT ALL? :)

وَلَا تَقۡرَبُواْ ٱلزِّنَىٰٓ‌ۖ إِنَّهُ ۥ كَانَ فَـٰحِشَةً۬ وَسَآءَ سَبِيلاً۬

Nor come nigh to adultery: for it is a shameful (deed) and an evil, opening the road (to other evils).

Chapter Al-Isra, Verse 32